Picture this. You're at the store, and you go to the chip aisle; how do you know which chips to grab? You choose the ones you want by the label and description. Brands help you identify what's on the inside. On the contrary, people are given names to be recognized by, not labels. If you call someone stupid, you have now replaced their identity with a term that could determine their future. People tend to become the things they are called the most, which is why you should always speak words of affirmation over the people around you instead of terms of destruction. Here's a challenge: identify a person who has been called names and get to know who they are beyond the labels. After all, labels are for jars and food -- not for people.