You know that scene in Black Panther where T'chala is fighting Killmonger for the throne? King T'chala took one too many punches and ended up losing that fight. Not only did he lose that fight, but Wakanda as the world knew it was beginning to change. When an evil version of the king took over, he started to make disastrous decisions that were not best for those around him. Though this scene was between two characters, that same thing begins to happen in your own life as well. When you show up wounded, hurt, or distracted, you make things more difficult for those around you. Just like King T'Chala, after he was wounded, chaos began to happen. This is why you must get help for your own hurts, habits, and hang-ups. When you take the time to deal with your pain and heal properly, you can then show up to the world the way you were designed. The world around you needs the best version of you to show up every single day.